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multigender people, trans people who are sometimes cis, queer people who are sometimes straight, trans people who don’t want and will not transition, trans and nonbinary people who don’t want binary bodys, queer platonic relationship havers, rabies flag people, people who’s queer identity is influenced or directly tied to their mental health, queer people with different dissociative disorders, people whos identity is tied to their nerodiversity, identitys that are fluid and constantly changing, queer people who don’t feel human, poly aroaces, people who’s identitys can’t and don’t need to be labeled, I love you I love you I love you
“no children are being forced to take hrt or have surgeries that change the appearance of their genitals” intersex children are, actually
“everyone was assigned a gender at birth” there are intersex people who were not assigned a gender at birth
“trans women are amab trans people and trans men are afab trans people” there are intersex people who were assigned male at birth and later transitioned medically and socially to male, and intersex people who were assigned female at birth and later transitioned medically and socially to female
“assigned gender at birth is a 1:1 predictor of tma vs tme experience” there are intersex people who were assigned female at birth and experienced violence for being a woman with a penis + testes + secondary sex characteristics like facial hair + having a testosterone-dominant hormone profile, and had to transition medically and socially to be socially and medically recognized as women as adults
“bodies born with sex variations are medically nonbinary” no, they are intersex, and intersex people can be a binary gender if they want to be
“nonbinary people who want non-cisnormative sex variations are mentally ill/diseased for wanting a disordered body” no, bodies with sex variations are not disordered, and it harms intersex people for them to be seen as disordered regardless of if the body in question was born that way or created through surgery
“cis women don’t experience transphobic body policing/will never understand how it feels to have your womanhood constantly in question and subject to violence over things you can’t change” intersexism overlaps heavily with transphobia and an intersex woman can both identify as cis and have a penis, testes, be testosterone-dominant, etc, and have visible signs of those traits. an intersex woman can also have been amab or be currently legally designated as male by the government and still identify as cis.
stop saying intersexist shit in your trans discourse thanks
Having a conversation and hug with a 50+ year old nonbinary butch who just got top surgery and has never had a conversation with another transgender person before, and they told me with tears in their eyes that they waited 50 years for their happiness and never once did they think they would meet someone like them and I just
btw an important figure in feminist history being a trans man does not erase their importance or significance because trans men are also oppressed by the patriarchy. trans men’s defiance against misogyny is not somehow less radical because they aren’t a woman. feminism has gotta stop clinging to woman-identity as the most important thing wrt anti-patriarchal action
[ID of a Reddit comment by Emotional-Fig9952 saying: “tbh before top surgery i was a c cup and when going into gay bathhouses, i had multiple people ask if i had gynecomastia. i didn’t even expect to pass, but people see what they expect to see and don’t question it too deep. one guy even came up to me and was like “i have gynecomastia too” and motioned to his small titties and asked me “did you get made fun of growing up as a boy with tits?” i just nodded and went along with it. i was shocked but then got used to it pretty quickly. people just assume”/end ID]
Solidarity between cis & trans men with tits now and forever
